i know by the way he comes and reports to me every day that he's worried, or at least that it's weighing on his mind. his wife had an 8 hour operation on tuesday, nothing life-threatening, but serious surgery nonetheless. i've never doubted he loved her, but seeing his concern and dedication to her over the past few days has given me a glimpse of the depths of their connection. i'm seeing his need for her, that she is his other half. it's beautiful. they've been married for over 35 years. they got engaged after dating only 3 months. he always tells me "when you know you just know". i asked him if he'll be ok on his own while she's in the hospital, unsure if he's used to being alone and if he'd feel at loose ends. he said he was fine, but i know that he misses her because he drives a half-hour there and back twice every day just to see her. she's the sweetest lady. he is the kindest man.
hatching from the seed of your thin mind.
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